Zindy lived with us until she
was about three years old. Tuva, another one of
my NFCs, had to move to a friend of mine because she was so afraid of
Zindy. And Zindy was really mean to her so she had all the reasons to
be afraid of her. Had I known then what I know now, of course Zindy would
have been the cat that had to leave us and not Tuva. But things were as
they were. As time went by Zindy got very mean to all of our other cats
so at the end she had to move to. Now she lives with a friend of mine
and she is really having the days of her life! And she was/is a very nice
and cuddly cat.
She just don't get along with other cats. Sometimes it happens things
like this. And if it happens, you have to think about your cats. If I
would have thought of myself and my own feelings, all cats would have
stay with me until they passed away. But you have to put the cat first.
We also have to keep in mind that cats are a gregarious animal. It's not
in their nature to live close with other cats. Sometimes they are forced
to do it. Out in the wild because the lack of food or other reasons. And
sometimes by us. And most of the times it works out fine. But sometimes
it doesn't. And if it doesn't work out fine - try to put your own feelings
aside and put the cats feelings first. Even if it will hurt you. Because
it hurts. I know that, unfortunately....